… does not make any sense right? It does’nt!
One of the famous papers, last week made a full page coverage on legalizing the Women’s right in a live in relationship or something more complicated the Live in. Maharastra Govt is taking it ahead and wants it to be passed and included in the Law where this terms “Other Woman” can be included in the definition of “Wife” by the book of Law
In my f**king opinion, if you want to legalize the “Other Women” might as well bring the Polygamy system IN, instead of beating around the bush (some one missed the word “around” and took it more serious “Beating the BUSH”
) why not just say that its OK by all means to have more than ONE WIFE and ALL THE WIVES will have equal rights in everything. Oh! also please include that its ok to have as many husbands you want! Prrfftbt!
Just by bringing the “Other Woman” in the picture, they are making all the Legal Wives till date to look like some kind of a joke! why would anyone want to take the pain of getting married, adjusting to the in laws and their dogs, wake up every morning to cook, feed, clean, satisfy husband, make babies and put up with the rest of the group of people etc etc! Why do you waste money in getting all the unknown uncles, aunts and cousins in one place, stand for hours to get photographed HORRIBLY, doing things for the SAKE of it! WHY??? It’s easy to be the “Other Woman” and walk away with all the effing rights.
The paper says “after that “OW” has lived for a considerable time with a Man….”, gentlemen, what is considerable time? Who decides that? My mom and dad still have arguments over what to cook and what to wash and that’s after some 25yrs of living together, so WHAT is CONSIDERABLE TIME? Having said that WHY should a woman having lived the life of a WIFE putting up with everything the marriage has to offer, just give the equal rights to the ONE who just “Has the CAKE and EAT it too”! Where do we have our brains eh?
There are people who are going gaga about it, yeah there are a few who claim that the Women are being taken advantage and this is the way they an trap the MEN behind the scene! I want all of them the cross their heart and tell us the truth for once, just for once, WHO IS TAKING ADVANTAGE of you??? and if you are THAT dumb and dint know that the man you are going around with is Married, I have no pity for you! What you should be doing is, along with asking rights do yourself a favor, just go Bobbitt him and then COME to the Govt seeking help for your foolishness!
And for the rest, who think that this is the WAY to salvation as a free modern women of 22nd Century, we are advancing and its nothing wrong in being the “OW” or being in Live In, I want to know how you would feel if , your mother or a sister has to face the OTHER WOMAN! Ask me? I would just pounce on her and break her jaw and bleed her to death if she has the cheek to tell me something like”Hey! You might be a wife, but you know I have equal rights too”! Yeah baby, you have; let me show you what you have!
Lets not get this thing mixed up, this “Live in” has no effing thing to do with “being modern” or the “in” thing stuff. It’s just simply LACKING the sense of COMMITMENT, OWNERSHIP, RESPOSIBILITY or just TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT or even being F***king SMART! Its everything but being modern.
This system may not suit the culture and heritage we portray but trust me, its just more than that! It just shows how we generation are so capable of complicating things and also being brave (!?) enough to do certain things. If you are one of those in the ‘adventurous’ category, i am just hoping that you wont come back asking for YOUR rights, Puleseee remember, you never had anything RIGHT! You may ask why? Its because, you are SMART enough to just share your ROOM, SOFA, KITCHEN, FOOD and SEX / EMOTION in the same level but not doing the stupid mistake of getting Married, Yes WE all DID that !!
Just remember you are SMART and SMART people don’t need any HELP